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Things To Do Before I Turn 50

  (also known as my "TA-DA" list as opposed to a "to do" list) It was my 49th birthday a few days ago and this got me thinking. Any birthday that ends with a zero always feels a bit like milestone or a landmark and, when I hit the big "five-o" in 2022, I don't want huge parties or celebrations but I would like to have ticked a few things off my low-effort bucket list.   I see these things as a way to improve my mental and physical health, plus a few slightly off-the-wall experiences that would make for great memories.  Start running again and include the following: Lead a C25K group again  Participate in parkrun EVERY week where possible  < ongoing (now parkrun Run Director too) Visit local landmarks whilst running  Train for a long race - building up from 5k > 10k > 10 miles > half marathon, with a couple of longer trail races mixed in  Lose a lot bit of weight Post more on Instagram or give the blog a bit of a reboot < ongoing Look at

Manners Maketh Man...

... so says William of Wykeham.

I have expected my children to have good manners since they were old enough to demand something and worked bloody hard at instigating it.  A biscuit was not given up until a grunt that sounded something like "Ta" or "Pees" had been uttered, no matter how much of a tantrum ensued and I always made sure that appropriate manners were used by everyone around them to set a good example.  Good manners are now second nature to my children - they say "please" and "thank you" without a second thought, they open doors for people and they stand aside to let people pass.  I have had strangers comment on  this, saying "Oh you're ever so lucky.  My child is rude and ungrateful." It is hard not to reply with a comment about parenting techniques but I've always accepted the compliment graciously, with a smile and a nod and an inner self-appreciating smirk.

Our children are forever being berated by older generations for being disrespectful or for going off the rails but when my 10 year old has held a door open for a member of the public and s/he swishes past without a second glance, I have to admit that I have called out a sarcastic "Thank you" to the departing body or, if we are still in the same vicinity, I have pointed out their rudeness.

I read somewhere that the original quote (in the title) now has a double meaning - the original meaning is that "manners are the basis of our society" and now that has been extended to "manners are created by our society".  I'm inclined to agree.  We need to nurture something to be proud of... you reap what you sow.