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Things To Do Before I Turn 50

  (also known as my "TA-DA" list as opposed to a "to do" list) It was my 49th birthday a few days ago and this got me thinking. Any birthday that ends with a zero always feels a bit like milestone or a landmark and, when I hit the big "five-o" in 2022, I don't want huge parties or celebrations but I would like to have ticked a few things off my low-effort bucket list.   I see these things as a way to improve my mental and physical health, plus a few slightly off-the-wall experiences that would make for great memories.  Start running again and include the following: Lead a C25K group again  Participate in parkrun EVERY week where possible  < ongoing (now parkrun Run Director too) Visit local landmarks whilst running  Train for a long race - building up from 5k > 10k > 10 miles > half marathon, with a couple of longer trail races mixed in  Lose a lot bit of weight Post more on Instagram or give the blog a bit of a reboot < ongoing Look at

Life Insurance

Due to a change in circumstances, we bought our own house a few years ago after years of renting, both privately and with housing associations.  It was only when we signed the mortgage papers that we realised how important life insurance was.  Insurance companies were crying out to insure me but we were stopped at every door for my husband, simply because we were open and honest about his mental health condition. 

I wanted us both insured.  I wanted myself insured because I am the sole wage earner and needed my family to be secure if anything should ever happen to me but I also wanted my husband insured simply because he was the “stay at home parent” and, at the time, I would have found it very difficult to work full time if anything had happened to him.

But the insurance companies were adamant.  Because he had a history of a mental health illness, coupled with the fact that he had a (failed) suicide attempt on his medical records he was told that he would probably never be offered life insurance.   We were told that he could reapply every six months and, at some point, he may be accepted.  Well, six years down the line he still hasn’t been accepted even though his health has been stable for a long time now.

In these recent frugal times, we have had to cut back on certain outgoings and my life insurance is one of them.  I currently have mortgage protection so that at least my family will be able to keep the roof over their heads should anything happen to me but we have had to cut back on the expensive premiums for the “extras”.  I actually feel very guilty about this because it only seems to be a few extra pounds each month – a couple of bottles of wine – but where do you find that extra money from?  What else can you cut back on?  Should this sort of thing be as important as paying your utility bills each month?

What about you?  Do you think life insurance is important or do you fly by the seat of your pants hoping that nothing will ever happen?

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